love is maybe the most selfish thing a person can want. i believe that. people who want love want someone to support them, to be there for them, to love them unconditionally. they want someone to witness their life, to make sure that when they pass on, someone was beside them making memories along the way with them. love is the most selfish want a person could vie for. yet, we all want it. maybe that's why people love each other, because they understand that once you do love someone you have to become selfless. you have to take all the "i" in your life and turn it into "we". maybe that's why it works out. then sometimes when it doesn't work out, it's because the person didn't give enough for the other person to be happy. so who is selfish in that case? the person that didn't give enough? or the person judging them for not giving enough? all i know is that while love is selfish, maybe it's like double negatives that cross out each other and become one big positive. one big positive.
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